My husband, knowing I am a Doctor Who fan and also a smoking fetishist, sent me this picture as a Christmas present this morning. Courtesy of Matt Smith's Facebook page. I love having a weird marriage. 🙂 An Anonymous Outsider
Writer's Note: This is part of a much larger post, titled Changes. The Autonomy Declaration This is a pretty major deal for me. The other day, my husband and I were talking and dealing with some issues that had built up over the last couple of years, while we had a different submissive living with … Continue reading The Autonomy Declaration
The last few days have been full of changes. Overwhelming, wonderful, changes. I felt like I couldn't blog because I had SO many different ideas in my head that I couldn't pick any particular one. So I'm just going to kind of throw it all in here together, because that is how it all happened … Continue reading Changes
Crying from being hungry, thirsty, exhausted, awake... Crying from the roller coaster that was today, even if the ride seems to have stopped. And crying for asking the stupidest question I may have ever asked in a decade of being with the hub. Not my day. I'll try again tomorrow.
Anger is a tricky thing. Everyone I live with has issues with it one way or another, myself included. My hub and my sub are the ones with tempers and anger issues that conform to the stereotypical image of someone with anger issues: my hub isn't a yeller, but he stomps around and gets really … Continue reading On Anger: The Beast Below
You don't know me. Even if you had met me and shaken my hand in the past, you do not. I know this to be empirically true because I do not know me. I know a lot of things about myself, but they are just that: things about me, not me alone. To know myself … Continue reading An Anonymous Outsider